http://gamedev.net/
Game specific but has a ton of tutorials on all sorts of things well beyond programming and has a number of good forums
http://www.gamasutra.com/
Has some top notch tutorials as well as industry news
http://www.msoe.edu/eecs/ce/courseinfo/stl/
I find myself here often whenever I tackle STL stuff
http://www.jimprice.com/jim-asc.htm
I used this website extensively when I was in college but don't have much use for ascii stuff (or have finally learned it) now
I have more book marks I'll add when I'm on my home computer (don't have them here at work).

